If we decide to do so, we can
enjoy the magic of life's journey no matter which path we are traveling. I
frequently mention Robert Frost and his famous poem The Road Not Taken. I do so because the first phrase presents a
desire of many. We frequently face two or more good
options and want to do them both. Choosing the best one for a particular time
is a good dilemma.
"Roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler," ...
All we can do is choose the road that seems the most appropriate. Perhaps another road can be accommodated as a hobby or followed more fully at a later time. Wasting time on regret does not seem like a good idea.
A character in Eric Van Lustbader's new book, "The Bourne Imperative" gives another perspective. He says life guides and teaches lessons needed to survive and prosper. However, in order to learn these lessons, we need to get rid of pride. We have to accept obstacles, to find the way through the obstacles rather than turning away from them. (Lustbader, 2012) Pride is probably mentioned because it can block our hearts and minds from considering advice and suggestions.
If we can follow the guide and learn these lessons, our number of regrets is minimal. However, we are changed by the experiences and can expect to find additional paths as we continue our journey. Sometimes fear causes us to choose the path of least resistance. If we do take the easy path, guilt and regret may kick in and we begin berating ourselves for making poor choices. This is when we need to be gentler with ourselves.
If it is too late to reverse the decision, calm down. A short walk in a park or quiet time in nature is often a good antidote. Just remember, an alternate path also can be rewarding. Try to determine what can be learned from this experience. It is still possible to enjoy today and anticipate tomorrow.
By enjoying today, those with whom you meet will sense your happiness and learn to appreciate their journey too.
Remember, we are here for a reason. Most people are born with a sense of what that reason is and are good at finding their way. Some of us have to work a little harder to make sure we are on the right path. However, that work is rewarding too because we learn a lot in the process.
"Roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler," ...
All we can do is choose the road that seems the most appropriate. Perhaps another road can be accommodated as a hobby or followed more fully at a later time. Wasting time on regret does not seem like a good idea.
A character in Eric Van Lustbader's new book, "The Bourne Imperative" gives another perspective. He says life guides and teaches lessons needed to survive and prosper. However, in order to learn these lessons, we need to get rid of pride. We have to accept obstacles, to find the way through the obstacles rather than turning away from them. (Lustbader, 2012) Pride is probably mentioned because it can block our hearts and minds from considering advice and suggestions.
If we can follow the guide and learn these lessons, our number of regrets is minimal. However, we are changed by the experiences and can expect to find additional paths as we continue our journey. Sometimes fear causes us to choose the path of least resistance. If we do take the easy path, guilt and regret may kick in and we begin berating ourselves for making poor choices. This is when we need to be gentler with ourselves.
If it is too late to reverse the decision, calm down. A short walk in a park or quiet time in nature is often a good antidote. Just remember, an alternate path also can be rewarding. Try to determine what can be learned from this experience. It is still possible to enjoy today and anticipate tomorrow.
By enjoying today, those with whom you meet will sense your happiness and learn to appreciate their journey too.
Remember, we are here for a reason. Most people are born with a sense of what that reason is and are good at finding their way. Some of us have to work a little harder to make sure we are on the right path. However, that work is rewarding too because we learn a lot in the process.
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