The Magic of this Journey

               Many authors and ministers are promoting the” get rich” or "you can be anything you desire" theory, if you just want it strongly enough. Visualize it, set your goals, review them regularly, work hard and your dreams will come true. This is not a new philosophy to come from pulpits, books, and philosophers. Epictetus c. (55 - c. 135 AD) said, “The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best.”

           Rhonda Byrne’s The Secret is just one of thousands of publications designed to help us be all we can be.  Amazon.com lists over 24,000 books, discs, tapes, etc. on positive thinking.

After reading and trying many ideas in the self-help and positive thinking book, including The Secret, there is a new realization that seems to be coming to me. A quote by Jackson Kiddard, from the early 1900’s provides a good perspective.

Life is not a struggle; the only struggle is your resistance to allowing reality to be exactly as it is. Struggles would disappear if you could allow the comings and goings of life flow through you with the trust that everything that is happening to you is for your best interest, even if you can’t see it right now. Allowing reality to be exactly as it is – this is the first step towards transformation.

Especially after reading The Half Lived Life, by John Lee, and reading the Kiddard quote, I realize there is something to say for not feeling that it is important to have control. Professor John Lee did not say it this way, but from my perspective, it is important to let God (the Spirit, the higher power, guardian angel, or whoever you believe is in control) to be the driver of the bus. When we no longer have to visualize the safe, satisfying arrival of each stop along this journey; we just sense or know that the journey is going to be fine.

When the mind is clear; because of purposeful living, always telling the truth, and taking care of the body and mind, "hearing" or sensing the voice (I use voice for lack of a better word) making suggestions; even on everyday issues seems normal. Following that inner voice is what makes the difference in our lives. Doubts and fears cause us to say "No," sometimes, and this brings negativity to our lives. Faith and trust causes us to say "Yes," sometimes, and this enriches our lives.

Take a moment and think of the times you have received "bright ideas" from the voice and you had to decide whether to ignore the ideas or do something constructive with them: "No.” I will not buy that stock." "No.” I won't turn down that road." “Yes.” "I need to accept this opportunity. When you obeyed the voice, were you blessed? As you listen to the voice, it will become stronger and you will learn to trust it more.

           It seems that the key is recognizing opportunities and not allowing fear to deprive us of success. It has been my experience that pushing through fear has often resulted in blessings and joy that have enriched my life for a lifetime. On the other hand, allowing fear to control my thinking and decision-making has resulted in lost opportunities that had the potential to change my life in positive ways.

          Do not be discouraged. Missed opportunities need not lead to undo regret. They are good learning experiences.  They are mere reminders to be more alert for future opportunities and remind us to conquer fear when it reappears. We can enjoy our journey and continue to give and receive love along the way. Remember, life is not supposed to be a struggle. I wish you joy and blessings as you anticipate opportunities. Enjoy today and anticipate tomorrow.